I’ve recently decided that I wanted to expand my dating pool, and I’ve found myself dating both women and men lately. It’s interesting to find out the differences that both enjoy – but that as one person, I can satisfy the needs of both. I haven’t really been able to pinpoint what I like about each the best, but I am really comfortable with just about anything that has to do with sex, my body – and even exploring nuances that most people don’t think about it. I have had the hardest time attempting to label myself though, what would I be called? What would others call me? A close friend of mine told me that I should identify with the gay community, just because my “identity” is unidentified. Others, say that I could qualify as all of the letters in LGBTQ – but I think that’s nearly impossible. I don’t want to alter my body. I don’t want to alter my looks. I’m comfortable being the man that I am, and I would prefer no label at all. Sometimes, people of one “identity” take things way to seriously and always want me to identify as one – so I do it for them. In the long term, I’d like to know – should I identify at all? Are there other people like me out there??
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