My husband has this aggravating habit of making plans with other people without ever consulting me. Last week, he agreed to go out for drinks tomorrow with another couple (he works with the husband). But I don’t particularly like either of these people and I would have opted out — IF I’d had the luxury of knowing about the plans! He does this a lot and it’s really getting on my nerves. I enjoy going out and doing things with him, but it’s totally disrespectful to not even be asked! I have a life and a schedule too! Would I be wrong if I just don’t go tomorrow OR should I call and cancel without him knowing like he makes plans without me knowing?