About a couple of months ago is when it all started. We always have had trust issues because she would lie about everything and had cheated on me in the past. We got into a big fight cause I had a feeling something wasn’t right. She told me she wanted space. So I gave it to her. I later found out, from the moment she told me she wanted space, she was having an emotional affair with a guy at work. About a month into it she finally told me about this guy whose also married, but didn’t really tell me what they had done just that they had feelings for each other and no guy ever made her feel the way he made her feel. 4 days later I decided to move out and file for a divorce. Long story short things didn’t end up working out with her and him so I told her I wanted to try and reconcile things but she sys that she would rather be single since I already filed for divorce. FYI we are both 26, been married for a year & a half and have a 2yr old son. This was my first real relationship and we have been together for 5 years, I just am having a hard time accepting things and regret filing for divorce. I thought it would somehow wake her up but I think it’s what she wanted all along.