Dear Shakeup Team,
My girlfriend of two years went to go visit her ex boyfriend in the hospital as he is in critical condition. I understand that she is worried about them but I am kind of upset. I don’t mean to be heartless but if you were over him why would you go check on him? She asked me if I was ok with it and I didn’t want to seem controlling so I told her to do what makes her happy and so she went. My boys say that I am tripping, that she clearly still has feelings for him & if I don’t break up with her than I am signing up to get played. I really care about her & I don’t want to lose her, I just don’t know what to do?