Hey ShakeUp Team,
My wife and I have a couple that we are really good friends with. Over this past weekend I was at their house watching the Cowboys vs Packers game and he tells me something about his new job, but it was one of those “Don’t tell anyone but…..” type of things. When I got home, I told my wife. Her response? “Oh, yeah, I knew that, Jennifer told me last week.” What? I asked her why she never said anything to me and she said that his wife told her not to tell anyone. Even her husband? I thought that was a given that she would tell me. Is it? Do you automatically tell your spouse a secret? I’ve been telling my “secretes” to my significant others since I’ve been dating — I just feel like it’s the right thing to do.