Dear ShakeUp Team ,
A month ago I met a really great guy and we hit it off immediately. We went on four dates, he calls me all the time, and things were going well. About a week ago he was transferred across the country for work. He’s still calling me all the time, and we talk for hours. Last week we decided that I’d fly out to visit him this weekend. I bought a plane ticket and everything, and a few days later he called me to break some bad news. He said he only has a bed and a TV in his new apartment, and it won’t be set up by the time I get there . . . so he wanted me to push back my visit a few extra weeks. He said it’s nothing to do with me, and he made the mistake. Obviously I’m annoyed about this last minute change in plans, and a part of me feels like he just doesn’t want me to come. Should I be worried about this?