Dear Shakeup Team,
I’ve been dating these two guys now for a few months and I really like them both. They know that we are not exclusive and I haven’t been with either one of them intimately. I am getting to a point now where I really just want to give my all to one relationship. My dilemma is that one of them really has it all together but our chemistry is off a little bit like he can be awkward sometimes. The other guy, our chemistry is phenomenal but he has a child and is working two part time jobs right now and going to school. I feel like I’m falling in love with the guy with the child but I just don’t know if he will provide me with the stability in a relationship that I want. What should I do?