I’m dating a guy who’s pretty reserved about showing affection. Maybe a hug or something, but not a back rub . . . and he’s definitely not into any kind of PDA. That is . . . until he’s had a few drinks.
Once the drinks have taken the edge off, he’ll hold my hand in public, kiss me, and act REALLY affectionate. But it’s ONLY when he’s been drinking. Is he just shy because we just started seeing each other? Or do some guys ALWAYS need a little liquid courage to show affection? Should I tell him that it bothers me?