Please help me sort through my crazy situation. I am 22 years old and I am involved with a guy more than twice my age. he is 45years old. We met during a time he was broken up with his girlfriend of 4years. I have three kids and I am now pregnant with his child. He told me about his Ex who is also 45 , and told me that they were still very close friends, he even let me read some of the messages they would trext eachother. Well a few months ago he had to go to court and was on trial for a crime he did not commit. I wanted to be there to support him but he told me that i could not come because she was there. He said that it would not be fair to her because she was there with him from the beginning and she wanted to see him through this. The trial went on for a little over a month and she was there everyday. I asked on several occasions if I could come and he repeadidly told me no. He was convicted and sent to jail. I have since, seen and talked to the EX She is a very nice person. I can see why he loves her. The problem is this. He has her handling all of his business and I have to get all my infomation and instructions from her. I am young but I am very capible of handling business. WHen he cant reach her he has me text her to tell her he is trying to reach her or sometimes even call her for him on three way. He is so concerned with her. They say they are Best friends but I feel like im the side chick and she is his woman. He has even told me to tell her that he missed talking to her when he couldnt reach her for a few days. Help I dont know what to do. She is a sweet lady and I dont want to piss her off or ruin my relationship with him.
SIgned, I Think Im the Other Woman.