I was dumped via text yesterday. I met him in Dec 2012 at my cousin’s event. We communicate via text and phone for over a year. He did not want to do a long distance relationship. So I resigned myself to be friends. After he came to visit, dynamics began to change. A month or so ago we acknowledged our love for each other and were beginning to work on figuring things out. We did not have a title. The only thing I can contribute to the breakup is the fact that I was quiet on the phone the last time we talked. An hour before he called, I had just found out my cousin died unexpectedly. And because I was quiet on the phone and didn’t hear a question he asked, he felt disrespected. He didn’t talk to me for several days, and when he did it was via text to tell me I wasn’t ready for a relationship. I am so hurt and having a hard time reconciling this. This was the first time I was in love and I was really trying. I can’t believe he left me so quickly and over something that I think is so minor. I am devastated. Please help me figure out where I went wrong from a man’s perspective.