I was introduced to an inmate through my brother in 2009. In the begining i didnt want anything to do with this guy. So for months I blew him off. Well we started talking and so called getting to know each other (way out of my comfort zone). About 6 or 7 months later he asked if i would come and visit him and if i didnt like him then it would be one and done. I said no many times. Well i decided to go one day, we had been talking for a while now. I went and never stopped for four years. Within the four years we married while he was still locked up. We went through arguing and all types of BS. I lost my visits with my brother because of this dude. When he came home i was happy, we talked about keeping God first in our relationship, which i dont think he has done that. Its been 5 months since he’s been home and all we do is argue. He tells me that he loves me more than anything in the world. But he can be petty at time. Sometimes he would use my cell phone and delete the numbers and text messages out my phone. I asked him why does he do that, are you hiding something. When i ask him to do the smallest thing for me he always has an excuse. I work, i clean, i cook. When he asked me to rub his back when i get home from work i do, when he ask for coffee, its made. He act like doing something for me is a problem. Just this week he leaves again, which we agreed on. So the first night he calls me the next morning we talk, that afternoon we talk. That night we argue. I called him twice and he didnt pick up, he text me, which by the way he claims he hates text. so i text back and said you cant pick up but you can send me a text. He calls within seconds and says, he was in the car and couldnt be on his cell phone. I said what, that makes no scense, we argue again. I asked him what time was he going in the house, he said he was on his way. I then said this is why i worry. He says ” dont do this tonight, i dont want to argue: i said who is arguing. This man can be selfish, rude and disrespectful. He thinks he can talk to peole how he wants but you cannot speak to him the same way. This is not love. What real man acts like this. I love this man trully but i cant take it no more. I feel like he’s hiding something and up to no good. I think he loves for me to worry and loose sleep over him.