I’m sick of having to prove myself to friends family and what not. I’ve been doing me by myself for years and I feel like society just wants me to prove myslef. I realized last month that I went to school for other people, got my job for other people – even got married for other people. Now I feel like I’ve hit a crossroads. I didn’t want any of this, so am I selfish for wanting to give it up and just going down another path? I don’t know if marriage is for me. I don’t know if men are for me. I just don’t know. I shared this same story with a friend of mine who was in the same place. He said he wanted to start over, maybe even try men – but that society still wouldn’t be accepting of that. He assured me it would be fine for me, because women can change their minds. I told him I think it’s the same – and maybe we should try it together. He’s apprehensive. How do you walk away from your job, your family and in some ways your life? Do we as people have this struggle?