I’ve been dating this guy for about 6 weeks. He seems to be pretty well known and a huge promoter in the DC area. I’m kinda of a homebody so I don’t spend a lot out and about. Well I was telling my bestie about him over lunch last week and …you know the butterflies are still here. I was descriptive and, just being a girl about the whole situation. He’s usually a good judge of character, and when I showed him his face flushed. That’s unusual, because he’s always upbeat. He ended our lunch and I just felt awkward. He text me a few hours later and told me that he was sorry to end things that way, but he had been having an on and off relationship with the same guy, and he had no idea he was still into women. He told me that he’s very out and open in “the community” and he didn’t know how to tell me. Now, I’m not sure if I missed something, he didn’t tell me, or am I just naive? Is DL still a thing? I must admit we haven’t had add yet, just good dates and great conversation. He’s such a gentleman.
ShakeUp Letter 5/20: Am I Dating?
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