I met this guy a few years ago, right after college and after a major breakup. He has been my main man for everything. I have met all his close family members and friends and he’s met mine. Literally, he’s always there for me — If I need to cry, talk, cuddle or be intimate, he has always been available. I love the way I feel when I’m with him. He compliments me, shows me respect, makes me laugh, listens to me… it just works! We seriously dated when we first met, but I got fed up after about 6 months of dating and he had not given me anything. No title. No half-title. No nothing. All the time, but nothing else. He said I kept pushing the issue and he wasn’t ready for all that. So I moved on, but now, I realize that I still have feelings for this man that will not go away.
No matter who I’m with, he’s the one I want. The only problem is that he still is not ready for a relationship. He says it’s because of his current living situation and finances, but we continue to spend time together and act as if we are together. Am I a game? Is he playing with my emotions and just wants my time -but doesnt really want me? Should I stop pressing the issue and just wait until he is ready? Im so lost on this one.