I feel like asking this question is a mute point for me, because I’ve really already made my decision, but I’m sure other people are still dealing with this in 2016, so I figured I would ask y’all anyway. Maybe y’all will enlighten me in a way that I haven’t enlightened mself. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 5 years. 5 years. To my family, well my parents, it’s been about 10 months. I’ve been out since, well I was never in, but I just think they either couldn’t tell or refused to accept it. I felt like it was time to just let them know they could stop asking me about girls or a future wife that would never appear and I told them (well showed them) back in March. My Mom sent out a message to us about Thanksgiving and holding it at my grandma’s place in Savannah. Tension has been intense enough so I had no plans on bringing my BF. He was going to his family’s dinner, and things were cool. My Dad responds to the text (the text to me and my siblings and cousins) and calls me out. He says ‘Jon if you bringin that fag you can stay home.’
I wasn’t bringing him, but now I am. I don’t know what the issue is. Our public interaction is the same as if I was bringing my best friend. He doesn’t want to come – but I’m bringing him. Do y’all think it’s a good idea?