Nearly two years ago my husband and I decided we would start doing things a little different in our marriage. We added some spontaneity to our sex life and decided together that we would keep an open mind to everything. By everything – I mean everything. We’ve done some swinging, threesomes and even some independent voyeurism. All safe. It’s really enlightened us both sexually and even made us both very accepting of all types of different people and their lifestyles. I have to admit I was the one that was more open to anything – a free spirit if you will, and he’s always been closed-minded. Almost homophobic. People phobic. All of that has changed. I opened him up to so much, and some days I wish I hadn’t. Recently we had a transgender male join us – and he’s taken a liken to him like no one ever before. They started working out together, going to the bar together and twice in the last month he’s brought him done so that we can all get it on. I don’t know how to feel because, he’s in essence found a homeboy, that he’s into, but I still feel like this female (former I guess) is trying to steal my man. I don’t know how to process any of this. Now I want things to be normal again. Am I wrong? Am I being selfish?
ShakeUP Letter 12/13: Open Marriage, Problem.
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