My daughter, who is 30, and her daughter, age 10, have been living with me for the past couple of years.
My daughter has a very good and demanding job, so I do all the cooking, shopping and housework, work at my granddaughter’s school, etc. My daughter has ADHD and is very disorganized.
She has always had terrible taste in men. Despite being bright, beautiful and educated, she seems to choose men no one else would ever want.
A year ago she fell in love with a man who is very ghetto and from what I can tell lives from place to place. He looks like he rarely bathes, his car is always full of trash and she says he grows pot.
My daughter is planning on moving in with him. I am very concerned about the influence this will have on my granddaughter. She doesn’t like this man, and has no desire to move there. Any thoughts on what I can do?