I’m fresh out of a 3 year relationship – that was just horrible. Nothing about it was defined. I felt like I was always going through ups and downs and honestly he felt like I was always doing the most. Now, I’m dating and just 4 months into it – after two dates, I’m ready to ask “what are we”? I don’t think I’m ready for how raw people have gotten with their responses – but the last date I went on the guy was up front. “You’re nothing. We’re nothing. We’re dating. Don’t ask anyone else that – or you’ll always be alone.” I laughed it off. He was sweet for the rest of the date, but I literally felt like I lost my sh*T. To my surprise – this is the only guy that’s been engaged with me in conversation multiple times a day since I’ve been back in the dating world. IS he into me? I want to ask him if we are something ‘more’ – but I just don’t know when the right time will be.
ShakeUP Letter: What Are We?
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